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Think and Grow Rich
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Old Man Worry
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CHAPTER 15 CONTINUED...
Worry is a state of mind based upon fear. It works slowly, but persistently. It is insiduous and subtle. Step by step it "digs
itself in" until it paralyzes one's reasoning faculty, destroys self-confidence and initiative. Worry is a form of sustained
fear caused by indecision therefore it is a state of mind which can be controlled. An unsettled mind is helpless. Indecision
makes an unsettled mind. Most individuals lack the willpower to reach decisions promptly, and to stand by them after they
have been made, even during normal business conditions. During periods of economic unrest (such as the world recently experienced),
the individual is handicapped, not alone by his inherent nature to be slow at reaching decisions, but he is influenced by
the indecision of others around him who have created a state of "mass indecision."
During the depression the whole atmosphere, all over the world, was filled with "Fearenza" and "Worryitis," the two mental
disease germs which began to spread themselves after the Wall Street frenzy in 1929. There is only one known antidote for
these germs; it is the habit of prompt and firm DECISION. Moreover, it is an antidote which every individual must apply for
himself.
We do not worry over conditions, once we have reached a decision to follow a definite line of action.
I once interviewed a man who was to be electrocuted two hours later. The condemned man was the calmest of some eight men who
were in the death-cell with him. His calmness prompted me to ask him how it felt to know that he was going into eternity in
a short while. With a smile of confidence on his face, he said, "It feels fine.
Just think, brother, my troubles will soon be over. I have had nothing but trouble all my life. It has been a hardship to
get food and clothing. Soon I will not need these things. I have felt fine ever since I learned FOR CERTAIN that I must die.
I made up my mind then, to accept my fate in good spirit."
As he spoke he devoured a dinner of proportions sufficient for three men, eating every mouthful of the food brought to him,
and apparently enjoying it as much as if no disaster awaited him.
DECISION gave this man resignation to his fate! Decision can also prevent one's acceptance of undesired circumstances. The
six basic fears become translated into a state of worry, through indecision. Relieve yourself, forever of the fear of death,
by reaching a decision to accept death as an inescapable event. Whip the fear of poverty by reaching a decision to get along
with whatever wealth you can accumulate WITHOUT WORRY. Put your foot upon the neck of the fear of criticism by reaching a
decision NOT TO WORRY about what other people think, do, or say. Eliminate the fear of old age by reaching a decision to accept
it, not as a handicap, but as a great blessing which carries with it wisdom, self-control, and understanding not known to
youth.
Acquit yourself of the fear of ill health by the decision to forget symptoms. Master the fear of loss of love by reaching
a decision to get along without love, if that is necessary.
Kill the habit of worry, in all its forms, by reaching a general, blanket decision that nothing which life has to offer is
worth the price of worry. With this decision will come poise, peace of mind, and calmness of thought which will bring happiness.
A man whose mind is filled with fear not only destroys his own chances of intelligent action, but, he transmits these destructive
vibrations to the minds of all who come into contact with him, and destroys, also their chances.
Even a dog or a horse knows when its master lacks courage; moreover, a dog or a horse will pick up the vibrations of fear
thrown off by its master, and behave accordingly. Lower down the line of intelligence in the animal kingdom, one finds this
same capacity to pick up the vibrations of fear. A honey-bee immediately senses fear in the mind of a person-for reasons unknown,
a bee will sting the person whose mind is releasing vibrations of fear, much more readily than it will molest the person whose
mind registers no fear.
The vibrations of fear pass from one mind to another just as quickly and as surely as the sound of the human voice passes
from the broadcasting station to the receiving set of a radio - and BY THE SELF-SAME MEDIUM.
Mental telepathy is a reality. Thoughts pass from one mind to another, voluntarily, whether or not this fact is recognized
by either the person releasing the thoughts, or the persons who pick up those thoughts.
The person who gives expression, by word of mouth, to negative or destructive thoughts is practically certain to experience
the results of those words in the form of a destructive "kick-back." The release of destructive thought impulses, alone, without
the aid of words, produces also a "kickback" in more ways than one. First of all, and perhaps most important to be remembered,
the person who releases thoughts of a destructive nature, must suffer damage through the breaking down of the faculty of creative
imagination.
Secondly, the presence in the mind of any destructive emotion develops a negative personality which repels people, and often
converts them into antagonists. The third source of damage to the person who entertains or releases negative thoughts, lies
in this significant fact-these thought-impulses are not only damaging to others, but they IMBED THEMSELVES IN THE SUBCONSCIOUS
MIND OF THE PERSON RELEASING THEM, and there become a part of his character.
One is never through with a thought, merely by releasing it. When a thought is released, it spreads in every direction, through
the medium of the ether, but it also plants itself permanently in the subconscious mind of the person releasing it.
Your business in life is, presumably to achieve success. To be successful, you must find peace of mind, acquire the material
needs of life, and above all, attain HAPPINESS. All of these evidences of success begin in the form of thought impulses.
You may control your own mind, you have the power to feed it whatever thought impulses you choose. With this privilege goes
also the responsibility of using it constructively. You are the master of your own earthly destiny just as surely as you have
the power to control your own thoughts. You may influence, direct, and eventually control your own environment, making your
life what you want it to be-or, you may neglect to exercise the privilege which is yours, to make your life to order, thus
casting yourself upon the broad sea of "Circumstance" where you will be tossed hither and yon, like a chip on the waves of
the ocean.
THE DEVIL'S WORKSHOP - THE SEVENTH BASIC EVIL
In addition to the Six Basic Fears, there is another evil by which people suffer. It constitutes a rich soil in which the
seeds of failure grow abundantly. It is so subtle that its presence often is not detected. This affliction cannot properly
be classed as a fear. IT IS MORE DEEPLY SEATED AND MORE OFTEN FATAL THAN ALL OF THE SIX FEARS. For want of a better name,
let us call this evil SUSCEPTIBILITY TO NEGATIVE INFLUENCES.
Men who accumulate great riches always protect themselves against this evil! The poverty stricken never do! Those who succeed
in any calling must prepare their minds to resist the evil. If you are reading this philosophy for the purpose of accumulating
riches, you should examine yourself very carefully, to determine whether you are susceptible to negative influences. If you
neglect this self-analysis, you will forfeit your right to attain the object of your desires.
Make the analysis searching. After you read the questions prepared for this self-analysis, hold yourself to a strict accounting
in your answers. Go at the task as carefully as you would search for any other enemy you knew to be awaiting you in ambush
and deal with your own faults as you would with a more tangible enemy. You can easily protect yourself against highway robbers,
because the law provides organized cooperation for your benefit, but the "seventh basic evil" is more difficult to master,
because it strikes when you are not aware of its presence, when you are asleep, and while you are awake. Moreover, its weapon
is intangible, because it consists of merely - a STATE OF MIND. This evil is also dangerous because it strikes in as many
different forms as there are human experiences. Sometimes it enters the mind through the well-meant words of one's own relatives.
At other times, it bores from within, through one's own mental attitude. Always it is as deadly as poison, even though it
may not kill as quickly.
HOW TO PROTECT YOURSELF AGAINST NEGATIVE INFLUENCES
To protect yourself against negative influences, whether of your own making, or the result of the activities of negative people
around you, recognize that you have a WILL-POWER, and put it into constant use, until it builds a wall of immunity against
negative influences in your own mind.
Recognize the fact that you, and every other human being, are, by nature, lazy, indifferent, and susceptible to all suggestions
which harmonize with your weaknesses.
Recognize that you are, by nature, susceptible to all the six basic fears, and set up. habits for the purpose of counteracting
all these fears.
Recognize that negative influences often work on you through your subconscious mind, therefore they are difficult to detect,
and keep your mind closed against all people who depress or discourage you in any way.
Clean out your medicine chest, throw away all pill bottles, and stop pandering to colds, aches, pains and imaginary illness.
Deliberately seek the company of people who influence you to
THINK AND ACT FOR YOURSELF.
Do not EXPECT troubles as they have a tendency not to disappoint.
Without doubt, the most common weakness of all human beings is the habit of leaving their minds open to the negative influence
of other people. This weakness is all the more damaging, because most people do not recognize that they are cursed by it,
and many who acknowledge it, neglect or refuse to correct the evil until it becomes an uncontrollable part of their daily
habits.
To aid those who wish to see themselves as they really are, the following list of questions has been prepared. Read the questions
and state your answers aloud, so you can hear your own voice. This will make it easier for you to be truthful with yourself.
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