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Think and Grow Rich
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How To Outwit The Six Ghosts Of Fear
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CHAPTER 15
Take Inventory of Yourself, As You Read This Closing Chapter, and Find Out How Many of the "Ghosts" Are Standing in Your Way
BEFORE you can put any portion of this philosophy into successful use, your mind must be prepared to receive it. The preparation
is not difficult. It begins with study, analysis, and understanding of three enemies which you shall have to clear out.
These are INDECISION, DOUBT, and FEAR!
The Sixth Sense will never function while these three negatives, or any of them remain in your mind. The members of this unholy
trio are closely related; where one is found, the other two are close at hand.
INDECISION is the seedling of FEAR! Remember this, as you read. Indecision crystalizes into DOUBT, the two blend and become
FEAR! The "blending" process often is slow. This is one reason why these three enemies are so dangerous. They germinate and
grow without their presence being observed.
The remainder of this chapter describes an end which must be attained before the philosophy, as a whole, can be put into practical
use. It also analyzes a condition which has, but lately, reduced huge numbers of people to poverty, and it states a truth
which must be understood by all who accumulate riches, whether measured in terms of money or a state of mind of far greater
value than money. The purpose of this chapter is to turn the spotlight of attention upon the cause and the cure of the six
basic fears. Before we can master an enemy, we must know its name, its habits, and its place of abode. As you read, analyze
yourself carefully, and determine which, if any, of the six common fears have attached themselves to you.
Do not be deceived by the habits of these subtle enemies. Sometimes they remain hidden in the subconscious mind, where they
are difficult to locate, and still more difficult to eliminate.
THE SIX BASIC FEARS
There are six basic fears, with some combination of which every human suffers at one tune or another. Most people are fortunate
if they do not suffer from the entire six. Named in the order of their most common appearance, they are:-
The fear of POVERTY
The fear of CRITICISM
The fear of ILL HEALTH
The fear of LOSS OF LOVE OF SOMEONE
The fear of OLD AGE
The fear of DEATH
All other fears are of minor importance, they can be grouped under these six headings.
The prevalence of these fears, as a curse to the world, runs in cycles. For almost six years, while the depression was on,
we floundered in the cycle of FEAR OF POVERTY. During the world-war, we were in the cycle of FEAR OF DEATH. Just following
the war, we were in the cycle of FEAR OF ILL HEALTH, as evidenced by the epidemic of disease which spread itself all over
the world.
Fears are nothing more than states of mind. One's state of mind is subject to control and direction. Physicians, as everyone
knows, are less subject to attack by disease than ordinary laymen, for the reason that physicians DO NOT FEAR DISEASE. Physicians,
without fear or hesitation, have been known to physically contact hundreds of people, daily, who were suffering from such
contagious diseases as small-pox, without becoming infected. Their immunity against the disease consisted, largely, if not
solely, in their absolute lack of FEAR.
Man can create nothing which he does not first conceive in the form of an impulse of thought. Following this statement, comes
another of still greater importance, namely, MAN'S THOUGHT IMPULSES BEGIN IMMEDIATELY TO TRANSLATE THEMSELVES INTO THEIR PHYSICAL
EQUIVALENT, WHETHER THOSE THOUGHTS ARE VOLUNTARY OR INVOLUNTARY. Thought impulses which are picked up through the ether, by
mere chance (thoughts which have been released by other minds) may determine one's financial, business, professional, or social
destiny just as surely as do the thought impulses which one creates by intent and design.
We are here laying the foundation for the presentation of a fact of great importance to the person who does not understand
why some people appear to be "lucky" while others of equal or greater ability, training, experience, and brain capacity, seem
destined to ride with misfortune. This fact may be explained by the statement that every human being has the ability to completely
control his own mind, and with this control, obviously, every person may open his mind to the tramp thought impulses which
are being released by other brains, or close the doors tightly and admit only thought impulses of his own choice.
Nature has endowed man with absolute control over but one thing, and that is THOUGHT. This fact, coupled with the additional
fact that everything which man creates, begins in the form of a thought, leads one very near to the principle by which FEAR
may be mastered.
If it is true that ALL THOUGHT HAS A TENDENCY TO CLOTHE ITSELF IN ITS PHYSICAL EQUIVALENT (and this is true, beyond any reasonable
room for doubt), it is equally true that thought impulses of fear and poverty cannot be translated into terms of courage and
financial gain.
The people of America began to think of poverty, following the Wall Street crash of 1929. Slowly, but surely that mass thought
was crystalized into its physical equivalent, which was known as a "depression." This had to happen, it is in conformity with
the laws of Nature.
THE FEAR OF POVERTY
There can be no compromise between POVERTY and RICHES! The two roads that lead to poverty and riches travel in opposite directions.
If you want riches, you must refuse to accept any circumstance that leads toward poverty. (The word "riches" is here used
in its broadest sense, meaning financial, spiritual, mental and material estates). The starting point of the path that leads
to riches is DESIRE. In chapter one, you received full instructions for the proper use of DESIRE. In this chapter, on FEAR,
you have complete instructions for preparing your mind to make practical use of DESIRE.
Here, then, is the place to give yourself a challenge which will definitely determine how much of this philosophy you have
absorbed. Here is the point at which you can turn prophet and foretell, accurately, what the future holds in store for you.
If, after reading this chapter, you are willing to accept poverty, you may as well make up your mind to receive poverty. This
is one decision you cannot avoid.
If you demand riches, determine what form, and how much will be required to satisfy you. You know the road that leads to riches.
You have been given a road map which, if followed, will keep you on that road. If you neglect to make the start, or stop before
you arrive, no one will be to blame, but YOU. This responsibility is yours. No alibi will save you from accepting the responsibility
if you now fail or refuse to demand riches of Life, because the acceptance calls for but one thing-incidentally, the only
thing you can control-and that is a STATE OF MIND. A state of mind is something that one assumes. It cannot be purchased,
it must be created.
Fear of poverty is a state of mind, nothing else! But it is sufficient to destroy one's chances of achievement in any undertaking,
a truth which became painfully evident during the depression.
This fear paralyzes the faculty of reason, destroys the faculty of imagination, kills off self-reliance, undermines enthusiasm,
discourages initiative, leads to uncertainty of purpose, encourages procrastination, wipes out enthusiasm and makes self-control
an impossibility. It takes the charm from one's personality, destroys the possibility of accurate thinking, diverts concentration
of effort, it masters persistence, turns the will-power into nothingness, destroys ambition, beclouds the memory and invites
failure in every conceivable form; it kills love and assassinates the finer emotions of the heart, discourages friendship
and invites disaster in a hundred forms, leads to sleeplessness, misery and unhappiness-and all this despite the obvious truth
that we live in a world of over-abundance of everything the heart could desire, with nothing standing between us and our desires,
excepting lack of a definite purpose.
The Fear of Poverty is, without doubt, the most destructive of the six basic fears. It has been placed at the head of the
list, because it is the most difficult to master. Considerable courage is required to state the truth about the origin of
this fear, and still greater courage to accept the truth after it has been stated. The fear of poverty grew out of man's inherited
tendency to PREY UPON HIS FELLOW MAN ECONOMICALLY. Nearly all animals lower than man are motivated by instinct, but their
capacity to "think" is limited, therefore, they prey upon one another physically. Man, with his superior sense of intuition,
with the capacity to think and to reason, does not eat his fellowman bodily, he gets more satisfaction out of "eating" him
FINANCIALLY. Man is so avaricious that every conceivable law has been passed to safeguard him from his fellowman.
Of all the ages of the world, of which we know anything, the age in which we live seems to be one that is outstanding because
of man's money-madness. A man is considered less than the dust of the earth, unless he can display a fat bank account; but
if he has money-NEVER MIND HOW HE ACQUIRED IT-he is a "king" or a "big shot"; he is above the law, he rules in politics, he
dominates in business, and the whole world about him bows in respect when he passes.
Nothing brings man so much suffering and humility as POVERTY! Only those who have experienced poverty understand the full
meaning of this.
It is no wonder that man fears poverty. Through a long line of inherited experiences man has learned, for sure, that some
men cannot be trusted, where matters of money and earthly possessions are concerned. This is a rather stinging indictment,
the worst part of it being that it is TRUE.
The majority of marriages are motivated by the wealth possessed by one, or both of the contracting parties. It is no wonder,
therefore, that the divorce courts are busy.
So eager is man to possess wealth that he will acquire it in whatever manner he can-through legal methods if possible-through
other methods if necessary or expedient.
Self-analysis may disclose weaknesses which one does not like to acknowledge. This form of examination is essential to all
who demand of Life more than mediocrity and poverty. Remember, as you check yourself point by point, that you are both the
court and the jury, the prosecuting attorney and the attorney for the defense, and that you are the plaintiff and the defendant,
also, that you are on trial. Face the facts squarely. Ask yourself definite questions and demand direct replies. When the
examination is over, you will know more about yourself. If you do not feel that you can be an impartial judge in this self-examination,
call upon someone who knows you well to serve as judge while you cross-examine yourself. You are after the truth. Get it,
no matter at what cost even though it may temporarily embarrass you!
The majority of people, if asked what they fear most, would reply, "I fear nothing." The reply would be inaccurate, because
few people realize that they are bound, handicapped, whipped spiritually and physically through some form of fear. So subtle
and deeply seated is the emotion of fear that one may go through life burdened with it, never recognizing its presence. Only
a courageous analysis will disclose the presence of this universal enemy. When you begin such an analysis, search deeply into
your character. Here is a list of the symptoms for which you should look:
SYMPTOMS OF THE FEAR OF POVERTY
INDIFFERENCE. Commonly expressed through lack of ambition; willingness to tolerate poverty; acceptance of whatever
compensation life may offer without protest; mental and physical laziness; lack of initiative, imagination, enthusiasm and
self-control
INDECISION. The habit of permitting others to do one's thinking. Staying "on the fence."
DOUBT. Generally expressed through alibis and excuses designed to cover up, explain away, or apologize for one's failures,
sometimes expressed in the form of envy of those who are successful, or by criticising them.
WORRY. Usually expressed by finding fault with others, a tendency to spend beyond one's income, neglect of personal
appearance, scowling and frowning; intemperance in the use of alcoholic drink, sometimes through the use of narcotics; nervousness,
lack of poise, self-consciousness and lack of self-reliance.
OVER-CAUTION. The habit of looking for the negative side of every circumstance, thinking and talking of possible failure
instead of concentrating upon the means of succeeding. Knowing all the roads to disaster, but never searching for the plans
to avoid failure. Waiting for "the right time" to begin putting ideas and plans into action, until the waiting becomes a permanent
habit. Remembering those who have failed, and forgetting those who have succeeded. Seeing the hole in the doughnut, but overlooking
the doughnut. Pessimism, leading to indigestion, poor elimination, auto-intoxication, bad breath and bad disposition.
PROCRASTINATION. The habit of putting off until tomorrow that which should have been done last year. Spending enough
time in creating alibis and excuses to have done the job. This symptom is closely related to over-caution, doubt and worry.
Refusal to accept responsibility when it can be avoided. Willingness to compromise rather than put up a stiff fight. Compromising
with difficulties instead of harnessing and using them as stepping stones to advancement. Bargaining with Life for a penny,
instead of demanding prosperity, opulence, riches, contentment and happiness. Planning what to do IF AND WHEN OVERTAKEN BY
FAILURE, INSTEAD OF BURNING ALL BRIDGES AND MAKING RETREAT IMPOSSIBLE. Weakness of, and often total lack of self-confidence,
definiteness of purpose, self-control, initiative, enthusiasm, ambition, thrift and sound reasoning ability.
EXPECTING POVERTY INSTEAD OF DEMANDING RICHES. Association with those who accept poverty instead of seeking the company
of those who demand and receive riches.
MONEY TALKS!
Some will ask, "why did you write a book about money? Why measure riches in dollars, alone?" Some will believe, and rightly
so, that there are other forms of riches more desirable than money.
Yes, there are riches which cannot be measured in terms of dollars, but there are millions of people who will say, "Give me
all the money I need, and I will find everything else I want."
The major reason why I wrote this book on how to get money is the fact that the world has but lately passed through an experience
that left millions of men and women paralyzed with the FEAR OF POVERTY. What this sort of fear does to one was well described
by Westbrook Pegler, in the New York World-Telegram, viz:
"Money is only clam shells or metal discs or scraps of paper, and there are treasures of the heart and soul which money cannot
buy, but most people, being broke, are unable to keep this in mind and sustain their spirits. When a man is down and out and
on the street, unable to get any job at all, something happens to his spirit which can be observed in the droop of his shoulders,
the set of his hat, his walk and his gaze. He cannot escape a feeling of inferiority among people with regular employment,
even though he knows they are definitely not his equals in character, intelligence or ability.
"These people-even his friends-feel, on the other hand, a sense of superiority and regard him, perhaps unconsciously, as a
casualty. He may borrow for a time, but not enough to carry on in his accustomed way, and he cannot continue to borrow very
long.
But borrowing in itself, when a man is borrowing merely to live, is a depressing experience, and the money lacks the power
of earned money to revive his spirits. Of course, none of this applies to bums or habitual ne'er-do-wells, but only to men
of normal ambitions and self-respect.
"WOMEN CONCEAL DESPAIR.
"Women in the same predicament must be different. We somehow do not think of women at all in considering the down-and-outers.
They are scarce in the breadlines, they rarely are seen begging on the streets, and they are not recognizable in crowds by
the same plain signs which identify busted men. Of course, I do not mean the shuffling hags of the city streets who are the
opposite number of the confirmed male bums. I mean reasonably young, decent and intelligent women. There must be many of them,
but their despair is not apparent. Maybe they kill themselves.
"When a man is down and out he has time on his hands for brooding. He may travel miles to see a man about a job and discover
that the job is filled or that it is one of those jobs with no base pay but only a commission on the sale of some useless
knick-knack which nobody would buy, except out of pity. Turning that down, he finds himself back on the street with nowhere
to go but just anywhere. So he walks and walks. He gazes into store windows at luxuries which are not for him, and feels inferior
and gives way to people who stop to look with an active interest. He wanders into the railroad station or puts himself down
in the library to ease his legs and soak up a little heat, but that isn't looking for a job, so he gets going again. He may
not know it, but his aimlessness would give him away even if the very lines of his figure did not. He may be well dressed
in the clothes left over from the days when he had a steady job, but the clothes cannot disguise the droop.
"MONEY MAKES DIFFERENCE.
"He sees thousands of other people, bookkeepers or clerks or chemists or wagon hands, busy at their work and envies them from
the bottom of his soul. They have their independence, their self-respect and manhood, and he simply cannot convince himself
that he is a good man, too, though he argue it out and arrive at a favorable verdict hour after hour.
"It is just money which makes this difference in him. With a little money he would be himself again.
"Some employers take the most shocking advantage of people who are down and out. The agencies hang out little colored cards
offering miserable wages to busted men-$12 a week, $15 a week.
An $18 a week job is a plum, and anyone with $25 a week to offer does not hang the job in front of an agency on a colored
card. I have a want ad clipped from a local paper demanding a clerk, a good, clean penman, to take telephone orders for a
sandwich shop from 11 A.M. to 2 P.M. for $8 a month-not $8 a week but $8 a month.
The ad says also, `State religion.' Can you imagine the brutal effrontery of anyone who demands a good, clean penman for 11
cents an hour inquiring into the victim's religion? But that is what busted people are offered."
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