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Right And Wrong Thinking And Their Results
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Business Success
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Avoidance of discordant thinking is of immense practical value in business affairs. The man who gives himself over to disappointment,
regret, grief, anxiety, worry, or condemnation of himself or others, is not doing anything to forward his business, but he
is consciously or unconsciously cultivating a mental condition which will destroy his ability to arrive at correct conclusions
and to act upon them promptly and efficiently; therefore, he is either hindering or misdirecting the operations necessary
to success, and is wasting his mental and physical strength on injurious activity.
All discordant thinking should be stopped at once, and that energy which has been expended in destructive discord should be
directed into productive channels. Let him care- fully examine the situation, and use every mental effort in making and prosecuting
plans for success, without allowing for a moment the thought of possible defeat to paralyze his energies. This is the advantage
held by each one who has previously trained himself in the exclusion of discordant thinking. One who has not done this should
begin that training at once. It all lies with himself, and it is never too late to begin.
Herein is the difference between the man of twenty or thirty and the one of fifty. If the older man meets reverses, he seldom
recovers himself. The younger man, full of hope and confidence, but with- out experience and ignorant of the difficulties
ahead of him, does not even expect them, but as one by one they appear, fearlessly meets and overcomes them. The older man
has experienced all these difficulties, foresees them all, is staggered by his vision of their united magnitude, and supinely
allows his own discordant anticipations to frighten him out of making an effort; and yet, except for this, the older man has
great advantages over the younger because of knowledge derived from his larger experience with men and things. If the younger
man could add to his fearlessness the wisdom of the older one, there is little that could stand before him; and if the older
man would divest himself of his doubts, and fears, and anxieties, and would use all his energy and wisdom in meeting the difficulties
which he foresees, and which, foreseeing, he can the better cope with, he might snatch a brilliant success from the very jaws
of defeat.
The world laughs at the confidence of ignorant youth, but that very confidence, which is really the absence of discordant
anticipations, is in itself one great reason for his success. The world may well weep over that degeneration in the older
person which arises from his fear of future dangers and difficulties. The younger man overcomes the defects of ignorance by
his harmonious thinking which is unmodified by fear of danger, while the older man, notwithstanding his superior wisdom and
ability, is defeated by his own discordant thinking.
Herein is a large part of the reason why egotistic persons with only a fair share of ability so often succeed where others
of greater ability fail. Their own confidence creates an atmosphere which in- spires others with confidence in them and their
plans, and, therefore, they receive assistance which helps them to achieve success where those fail who lack that trait. Men
often succeed by the very impetus of their own self-confidence, that is, by the power of their harmonious thoughts and the
absence of self-distrust and self-condemnation; while others with far greater ability signally fail for no reason except their
own hesitation and fear, born of doubt of themselves.
In these two lines of thinking lie two important elements of success or failure. There is neither necromancy nor other mystery
connected with it. He who gives up his mind to be preyed upon by doubt, fear, and irresolution is inviting his own defeat
and is himself ministering to it, but he who resolutely dismisses all such thoughts is taking the necessary first step toward
success.
The man who delivers himself over to discordant thinking is doing the same kind of thing, only in a different way, that the
other person does who wastes his time and benumbs his faculties with intoxicants. Many a man has sunk into uselessness, become
a burden to his friends and himself, a blot on the name of humanity, solely because he has allowed discordant thoughts to
have possession of his mind. Death and insanity find their causes, immediate and remote, in the thinking which men have indulged
in.
The man seeking employment, who allows himself to be a prey to despair or other discordant thinking, unwittingly stamps upon
his features and moulds into his form and actions peculiarities which those who otherwise would desire his services at once
recognize as reasons for refusing his application. But if those thoughts are cut off as an excrescence would be, and if the
mind is filled with that hope, expectancy, and confidence which come from the thought that success is deserved and will be
achieved, the gait, the attitude, the glance of the eye, the whole man become transformed, and success seeks him as earnestly
as he is seeking success.
It is related that a boy entered a place of business and told the proprietor that his sign, " Boy Wanted," had fallen down.
"Well," responded the man, "why didn't you hang it up again?" "Because you don't want one now. I'm the boy you wanted." Whether
the story is true or not, it illustrates the confidence which follows the absence of fear, doubt, and their attendant uncertainties,
and which is a strong element of success.
It is not enough that the exclusion of discordant thinking shall be done only at the moment of necessity. It should be the
continuous mental habit, the result of careful mental training. The stamp of any habitual mental condition cannot be entirely
removed on the instant, but each person may al- ways keep his mind in the right condition, and then its physical expression
will correspond, and there will not be the other outward appearances to need removal or control.
Before any man dismisses as "nonsense" this theory of business success through correct and harmonious thinking, let him analyze
his own mental habits and compare the results in his business with his varying mental conditions. Let him observe on which
days he has done his best work, with the least expenditure of vitality -- those filled with cheer and hope and courage, or
those in which doubt and despondency held sway. On which days have those associated with him responded best to his wishes?
When have things moved most harmoniously? If every man will thus get acquainted with himself and the results of his own mental
attitude, he will recognize ample reason why it is no longer good business policy to waste his energy and destroy his efficiency
by discordant thinking.
But what if failure should come after strict adherence to this rule of mental control -- of what advantage has it been to
him who fails? This is his advantage: he remains perfectly poised, his judgment clear, his courage undaunted, his faith in
ultimate success unshaken; he is neither a nervous nor a physical wreck, but, instead, is all ready to make a new beginning
and to profit by his past mistakes.
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