 Are you a certified member of the NBSB organization? You know, the No Boyfriend Since Birth group who often wonder why they can’t seem to hook a guy. Or maybe your case is not that extreme. Maybe your problem involves difficulty in maintaining intimate relationships with your significant others, breaking off engagements, getting cold feet, filing for annulment or maybe even begging for a divorce. Or it could be that tumultuous relationship you have with your parents that you want to set on the right track. Whatever it is, the secret can help you change this aspect of your life. First, understand your part in the relationship. How can you expect others to enjoy your company if you cannot enjoy your company? It is essential that you treat yourself right. Do not neglect your inner needs or wants. Indulge yourself in little pleasures. If going to a spa is what will make your day, then go for it. If you just want a quick makeover and change in look, purchasing a few items at a trendy boutique could lift your spirits a few notches higher. Play with your little nephews and nieces. Surround yourself with things and people who can make you feel great. Finding fullness in yourself will help you to gain a realistic perspective on your relationships. When you are filled with goodness, you will overflow and people will be attracted to you, like bees to honey. Take note of your positive aspects and allow people to see them. Once you have taken this step, the rest will just follow. It takes two to tango, as they say. But if you are secure in yourself, in your capabilities and in your values, you will find it easier to deal with others who are on a different level. Supposing you like someone. You can perform creative visualization that he/she will reciprocate your feelings. However, you have to be honest with yourself too. Do you like that person only because he is popular, or rich, or good-looking? Cultivate relationships not because they are to be used for selfish motives. Cultivate them to allow you to grow as a mature and levelheaded individual. Cultivate them to allow you to grow and reach greater heights.Such selfless acts will thrust you to greater heights. With regards to troubled relationships, it is interesting to point out that such trouble occurs when the people involved are both immature. So again, go back to what I’ve mentioned earlier. Fill yourself to completion first and when that happens, you will be in a better physical, psychological, emotional and spiritual condition to discuss the reasons for your conflicts. You may be surprised to learn that you can actually converse with the other person without raising your voice or losing your temper. Trust me, it will be an easier time for both of you to make critical decisions in your lives. |
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